Dear ones,
I've gotten many a
request in the past week to compile and write something to the effect of
"33 things people who have lived abroad know to be true," "10
ways living in France changed your life," or my personal favorite,
"I've got 99 problems and French bureaucracy only accounts for 67."
My time in Strasbourg came to an end yesterday, so trust me when I say that I
am with you. I wish that I could wrap up my entire eight months in France with
a witty snapshot of gross generalizations, which have the good intentions of
being personal and sentimental, but in reality is overly simplistic and empty.
I wish that I could articulate how trying to cancel the contract on my phone
leads me to believe that Dante's fifth circle of hell is actually the SFR customer
service center, or adequately describe the sincerity with which I hugged
goodbye two boys whom I've had the pleasure to watch grow up this year, or the
feeling of tristesse that hit me suddenly upon walking out of my café for the
last time.
Instead, I can only
tell you that the process of unpacking this experience, literally and
metaphorically, will happen in stages and it may be awhile before I have any
real perspective. So, I'll do what I can. I'm finishing up the French life with
a weekend in Paris that, so far, has contained everything that I consider to be
so attached to my Parisian identity. I'll leave you now for a stroll down the
Canal St. Martin before heading off to meet some friends and then see the
Balanchine/Millepied program at the Paris Opera Ballet. Tomorrow brings new
surprises and treasures to be discovered with good people and, in a little over
48 hours, I'll be touching down in the States.
A très bientôt, mes
amis!
Love, Doria
p.s - ok, fine. Here
are some silly lists for you:
10 Things I will
miss about Strasbourg:
• Cafés and the
habitués (the regulars) whom I've come to know this year.
• Walking
everywhere.
• Independence.
• The river Ille,
especially the passerelles lined with willow trees.
• My friends and
adoptive families.
• Speaking word
poetry aka French. For example, did you know that a little milk to put in your
coffee or tea is referred to as "une nuage du lait" -- a cloud of
milk. How perfect is that?
• Stopping every few
feet because every building and street corner is beautiful and deserves a
moment of appreciation.
• Alsatian pride. I
never tire of hearing the joy and pride with which native Alsatians will toast
their region and slam Paris.
• Being the anomaly.
"You're American? NO WAY!"
• Feeling lost and
found at the same time.
10 Things I will
do immediately upon arrival in California (in order):
• Cry. No shame, I
can't help it. Girlfriend is gonna be tearing up starting over the Sierra
Nevadas. I don't even want to know how it'll go down once the Golden Gate
Bridge is in sight. Sorry not sorry in advance to whoever is sitting next to
me.
• Turn on the
American cell phone. Call me :)
• Say
"pardon" and "merci" to all the wrong people including
random customs dude, lady whom I am trying to pass on the moving sidewalk
thing, and also to the poor kid I practically run over because I see my sister.
• Hug it out with
the family Charlson. The crying will probably recommence about now.
• Eat a burrito.
• Ask to drive home
from the airport. (Yes, obviously I ate the burrito in the airport. What else
is baggage claim for? ).
• Be denied my
request to drive home from the airport because of lack of valid documentation,
jetlag, and also because I haven't operated a car in eight months.
• Go home and hug the
puppies!
• Remind myself that
I love the puppies, even though I hate dog hair on all my clothes.
• Sit in my room, on
my bed and sigh of too much happiness and contentment.